Getting married
can be an
expensive
affair. Cut out
some of the
costs by
following these
great tips.
Your
wedding dress:
Start
shopping right
away. You won't
feel rushed or
pressured into
buying
something, and
you'll be able
to shop smart.
Simple plain
dresses are
usually less
expensive then
the ones with
lace,
pearls/beads
etc..
You could buy a
plain dress and
add lace, beads
etc.. yourself.
Or get someone
to do it for
you.
Rent or borrow a
dress. If you
like your
mother`s,
sister`s or
friends dress
ask them if you
could borrow it.
But don`t be
offended if they
refuse as a
wedding dress is
very sacred to
most women.
Look around
second hand
shops/charity
shops. You`ll be
surprised at the
amount they get
given, and they
are usually
inexpensive.
The
venue:
Book the
ceremony/reception
well in advance
you may be able
to negotiate a
better price
then you would
if you left it
to the last
minute.
Have your
wedding on
off-peak months.
November to
April rates will
probably be
reduced.
Christmas
weddings are
more expensive
though so if you
are planning a
Christmas
wedding you will
have to cut your
finances.
Instead of a
grand ballroom
or banquet hall,
think
less-expensive
venues, like
publicly owned
buildings and
parks, registry
office, the
church or temple
hall, the
backyard, the
beach, a
restaurant's
private room.
You may have to
get a permit to
marry in a
public place,
but it will be
less than a
private banquet
room.
Catering:
Look around for
caterers. Get
different quotes
before you
decide on one.
Choose cheaper
entrees, like
prawns instead
of lobster,
vegetables like
broccoli instead
of asparagus
will cut the
cost, too.
Cut down on
courses. If
you're having a
cocktail hour,
do you really
need an
appetizer
course? Do you
need soup and
salad?
Instead of
waiter service,
have a buffet
bar.
Think ethnic!
Mexican, Indian,
Italian, or
Chinese food is
fun and much
cheaper per
person than the
traditional
wedding menu.
See if your
favorite
restaurant
caters.
If you are
having a themed
wedding create
your menu around
the theme.
Have the wedding
cake only as
dessert and
eliminate any
other sweets (eclairs,
pastries, etc.).
Consider a
wedding
breakfast or
brunch
(omelettes,
muffins,
pancakes, French
toast), or a tea
(a variety of
tea flavors,
finger
sandwiches,
scones and jams,
etc.) to save
money.
The more tiers
and decorations
your cake has
the more
expensive it
will be.
Buy your own
drink it will
work out a lot
cheaper then
paying the
caterers or
venues prices.
Photos:
Compare hourly
fees and package
deals to see
which is more
cost-effective
for you.
Give disposable
cameras as
wedding favours.
Then you can get
copies of the
days events from
family and
friends.
Have a
professional
photographer
take the formal
pictures and
shoot the
ceremony; have
guests take all
reception
photos.
Visit your local
college`s
photography
department and
check out some
of the students'
portfolios. They
will do your
photography a
lot cheaper and
just as good as
a professional
Ask friends and
family to video
the big day for
you.
Flowers:
Use flowers
that are in
season and/or
locally grown
they're less
expensive than
out-of-season
flowers that
must be shipped
to your area.
Have bouquet
with just a few
large flowers,
like orchids,
tulips, lilies,
or sunflowers,
tied with a
ribbon.
If you are
marrying at
Christmas or
Easter, your
church may
already be
decked out
beautifully.
Arrange to share
the cost of
ceremony
decorations with
the couple
marrying
directly before
or after you
that day.
Use silk or
dried flowers
instead of fresh
ones in table
centerpieces.
Music:
DJs are less
expensive than
live bands.
Ask a family
member or
friends child to
sing at the
reception.
Hire music for
the evening
reception only.
People are
usually to busy
chatting to
notice any way.
Ask at the local
college/university
for young
musicians.
Invitations:
Send invitations
that are light
enough when
completely
assembled to
require only a
single stamp for
mailing.
Make your own
invitation
cards. They are
cheaper and more
personal.
If you are
having a themed
wedding make
cards to do with
the theme.
Transportation:
Limousines are
cheap enough to
hire for an
hour. Find out
in advance how
long the
ceremony will
take.
Only hire a limo
for the bride
and groom; have
attendants
driven in
relatives' cars,
or have them
drive themselves
in groups.
You might be
able to hire a
horse and
carriage for
just as less.
Check the Yellow
pages for any in
your area.
We hope these
are of some use
to you.